Beccy Watson | "Motherwork, Motherleisure: Exploring The Leisure And Work
Relationships Of Young Mothers In Leeds." |
Abstract
This paper explores the relationship between paid and unpaid work, mothering responsibility, and leisure and consumption patterns of a group of 'young' mothers living in Leeds. Despite work on the leisure experiences of certain groups of women within the city (Deem, 1996; Scraton and Watson, 1998), women continue to be marginalised in analyses of urban leisure. There is a growing literature theorising women's use of public space, the gendering of space (Massey, 1994), and in particular, the gendering of city space (Wilson, 1991). Leisure studies, as a multidisciplinary area, needs to focus more attention on the difference between both individuals and, where appropriate, discernible groups, in order to look beyond the subjects often centralised in discourses of conspicuous consumption. It would thus be possible to explore in more detail the links between leisure and consumption studies (Deem, 1999), and, more importantly, to explore the continuing contradictory nature of some women's access to, and involvement in both leisure and labour, in relation to different times, places and spaces .
The paper draws from a qualitative study of the meanings young mothers attach to leisure, a central focus of which has been how the women use and negotiate Leeds as both a site for leisure and a site for paid labour. Contrary to the view that the boundary between work and leisure may be blurring in the context of consumption within the city, the research evidence suggests that for these women, work and leisure, both in relation to mothering and paid labour, often remain distinct and demarcated. At the same time however, the women are active consumers and producers, for example, as part of the work force in the leisure service industries (e.g. pub and bar work), as part of the work force in the gendered labour market (e.g.social work), and as participants in public and private leisure centres and health clubs, bars, music venues, and night clubs. Research data, collected primarily through interviews, suggests that the women 'map out' their use of the city for work and leisure in a number of ways, including choices for consumption (Deem, 1996; Skeggs, 1999), restrictions on the basis of income and domestic responsibilities, and in relation to cultural location. They also 'map' the city in relation to perceptions of fear and safety (Valentine, 1989).
Detailed, individual accounts indicate that there is a need to address both micro and macro processes occurring within a number of urban centres. Women are visible within the city as cultural intermediaries, as bar owners and club promoters, and as one subject in this research shows, as fashion designers. However, women are still marginalised in their actual use, access to, and experiences of the city, on the basis of gender, and at the intersections of gender, ethnicity, and income. They are also marginalised theoretically, and therefore, further analyses of leisure studies, consumption studies, feminist studies and cultural geography are required.
Introduction
This paper explores the relationship between paid and
unpaid work, mothering responsibility, and leisure and consumption patterns of a group of
'young' mothers living in Leeds. The paper examines the opportunities for, and experiences
of, paid work for eight different women, who are part of a wider research project looking
at 'young' mothers' leisure lifestyles.1 Its theoretical base includes
work from feminist cultural geography around the construction of space in cities, and
shifts in feminist theorising around different women's lives and the challenge of
poststructuralist analyses. A number of key questions are raised as a result of examining
the work/leisure relationships for the mothers in the study. Are work and leisure distinct
for the research participants? How does being a mother impact upon their opportunities
for, and experiences of, the paid labour market? What material constraints impact upon the
women's experiences, including economic factors (low or no income), and social and
cultural indicators (education, confidence, cultural capital)? What strategies do the
women employ in order to negotiate their everyday lives, including childcare demands, and
the benefits agency?
The selective analysis presented here is a result of exploring the (dis-)continuities of
gender and 'race' and the ways in which they operate and are reformulated within the
women's lives. The data included in this paper is taken from doctoral research that has
used focus groups, in-depth interviews and participant observation. Material drawn mainly
from the interviews is used to provide detailed descriptions of individual experiences,
negotiations and strategies. The ways in which work and leisure are constructed for the
women in relation to being mothers, (motherwork and motherleisure) are considered
throughout.
The paper discusses eight mothers' experiences of paid labour, and examines the sorts of
work they are engaged in. It shows, through the empirical evidence, that experiences of
paid labour are influenced and determined via a number of constructions around gender and
'race', albeit in different ways. It also considers changing female employment patterns in
Leeds more generally. The paper moves on to consider where paid work and leisure intersect
and overlap for the mothers in the study. A central focus of the paper is how the mothers
deal with the different demands of labour and leisure whilst often having to combine them
in a single form of action. This is followed by a discussion of the possibilities and
limitations for active consumption choices made by the women, drawing on examples of the
women's negotiation and use of space for leisure in the city. Where it is suggested that
paid labour is affected by discourses around 'race' and gender, arguably, the women's
leisure is also gendered and racialised. The research shows that the women 'map' out Leeds
in terms of opportunities for paid work and leisure as well as in relation to perceptions
of safety. The paper concludes that there are a number of complexities within any analyses
of women's experiences of work and leisure and explores some of the possibilities for
moving these debates forward. It thus provides a useful platform upon which to assess
young mothers' needs around work and leisure. To support this, further empirical research
that provides a more macro perspective on women's leisure and labour within Leeds is
required.
Theorising Young Mothers Leisure Lifestyles in an Urban Context.
The theory underpinning this research centres around shifts in feminist
leisure studies, analyses of 'race' and gender in feminist discourses on difference, and a
recognition of urban space as gendered and racialised (and sexualised). Theorising women's
leisure has developed from structuralist analyses of the ideological constructs of
patriarchy and capitalism (Deem, 1986; Wimbush and Talbot, 1988; Green et. al. 1987;
1990). Studies focusing primarily on mothers' leisure have offered useful ways of
redefining leisure for women (Wimbush, 1986). However, these structuralist analyses have
their limitations, particularly when we seek to explore the complexities of different
women's lives. Consequently, some feminist leisure writers are now moving towards
poststructuralist analysis (Wearing, 1998) as a means of (re-)examining the multiplicity
of meanings attached to different forms of leisure for different women. There are also
valid calls for leisure studies (generally) to collude with studies of consumption (Deem,
1999), rather than losing significance in what has been identified within feminism as a
turn to culture (Barrett, 1992).
These issues have prompted attempts to examine difference and women's leisure, with a
focus on 'race' and ethnicity. The title of this paper borrows Patricia Hill-Collins'
(1994) term, 'motherwork' to move beyond white middle class analyses of motherhood, and
thus problematises universalist approaches to motherhood and mothering experience.
Hill-Collins uses the term to identify black mothers' experiences of working across and
within both public and private spheres, and rejects the white, western, feminist concern
with patriarchy as the central determinant of motherhood within the private, domestic
sphere. What is of interest here are the ways in which individual women negotiate their
involvement in paid work, and the extent to which they create opportunities for their own
leisure and consumption. Their leisure also takes place across public and private space,
and therefore, it is relevant to talk about 'motherleisure'. However, it is argued that
any consumption takes place within certain contexts, which although not fixed and wholly
determined, do impact upon opportunities available to the women in this study. Therefore,
to lose sight of gender, 'race' and class, is to fail to acknowledge social, political and
economic factors that continue to impact, albeit differently, on different women's lives.
Difference is not incorporated into the research as a means of merely underlying the
diversity of the women's experiences (Maynard, 1994). Rather, it is utilised as a concept
through which to address certain power relations that continue to influence the mothers'
identities and experiences. Westwood and Bhachu (1988; p. 2) point out that any study of
paid work in relation to 'race' and ethnicity requires being "...committed to
understanding the lives of minority women as simultaneously an expression of difference
and similarity." Therefore, it is imperative that different women are not represented
as homogeneous on the basis of a spurious collective identity. If difference and
similarity are acknowledged as concurrent rather than dichotomous, then, as Westwood and
Bhachu (op.cit.) continue, "an understanding can be built of both the specificities
of minority women's lives and the commonalities between them and those of white British
women."
Brah's (1996; p.115) conceptualisation of difference offers a position from which to
address the complexities of difference within women's lives. Whilst understanding
difference involves both macro and micro levels of analysis, it is crucial to examine how
discursive constructions form social relations and subject positions. Brah's
distinction between difference as experience and difference as social relation allows a
position from which to acknowledge both the individual, active base of experience and
"the ways in which difference is constituted and organised into systematic
relations through economic, cultural and political discourses and institutional
practices." (Brah, 1996; p.117, her italics)
Theorising the mothers' work-leisure lives disrupts the binaries of agency/structure,
individual/collective, micro/macro, and explores women's lives as constituted and
constructed simultaneously both as experience and as social relation, rather than claiming
that one is the determinant of the other. A deconstructionist approach to analysing the
mothers' experiences, and avoiding essentialist claims about the categories of mother,
black mother, South Asian mother, working class mother, single mother and so on, has been
a feature of my approach to the research. However, the research data indicates that these
categories remain relevant in terms of highlighting various social processes and social
relations within which individual women experience their daily lives, and how, for
example, discourses of motherhood are reproduced. Brah states that deconstruction
facilitates necessary analysis of (dominant) discourses of particular groups of women. Her
example refers to Muslim women, yet can be made relevant to many different women.
The point I wish to stress is that it is crucial to make a distinction between 'Muslim woman' as a discursive category of 'representation' and Muslim women as embodied, situated, historical subjects with varying and diverse personal or collective biographies and social orientations. (Brah, 1996; p.131)
Cities are an interesting context within which to consider mothers'
experiences of leisure and labour and the different mothers in the study have a variety of
perceptions and feelings towards living in Leeds. Bringing up children, a need for
housing, health, amenities for education, for leisure, and increasingly for the
opportunity for paid work, is a part of the infrastructure of city life. Mothers are
therefore central in the use, consumption, production, and reproduction of city life. City
space is socially and culturally constructed, and yet there continues to be a lack of
research that focuses on women's roles and positions within the city (Massey, 1994). Some
leisure studies research, drawing on urban geography, has provided interesting material on
women's contrasting perceptions of city life in the North East (Mowl and Turner, 1995)
whilst other work has examined public/private distinctions within city spaces (Bondi,
1998). There are also valuable insights into women's location in the city historically
(Wilson, 1991; 1996; Wearing and Wearing, 1996), and some small scale research into how
particular groups of women use the city for their leisure (Deem, 1996; Scraton and Watson,
1998). However, there is a need for future research on women as conspicuous consumers and
producers within the city, as well as further studies on the ways in which women
continue to be excluded from city spaces for leisure.
Manda is a family social worker and does not qualify for statutory
benefits other than one parent benefit. Emma works as a clerical assistant to a male
manager in the private financial sector and is in receipt of family credit. Lisa is in
receipt of income support and serves dinners at her daughter's school, and Kelly works
some evenings for a security firm and is in receipt of income support. Lisa, Kelly, and
Keira have had numerous part time jobs such as bar work and cleaning, and Tricia used to
be an auxiliary nurse. Tricia is currently establishing herself as a beautician working
from home on a commission basis with a national company. Nasra is currently not in paid
employment but is caring for her youngest child and her sick father-in-law full time.
Keira is an assistant in a petrol station and is not claiming any state benefits, and
Shakila is a machinist in receipt of income support who does some "bits of work"
from home. The following section considers some of their comments on paid employment.
I stopped working when I got married. I did actually want to start work again but with my mother-in-law being very ill, she did need constant care. And at the time, I didn't mind. I just sort of fell into it.
Emma and Nasra both studied fashion at college and it was something that
they wanted to develop in terms of design. Nasra however, did not actually finish her
course because her father bought a shop for her to open her boutique in, and she left
college to run it. The shop closed when Nasra got married. Nasra now has three children
and is caring for her father-in-law, and consequently, returning to paid work is not
something that she is thinking about for the immediate future (after her mother-in-law
died, Nasra's father-in-law became ill and requires constant care). Arguably, her role as
care giver to older family members and her responsibility as primary childcare giver and
domestic organiser, is evidence of continuing gendered relations. Her husband has a
knitwear business and though Nasra is still interested in clothing and design, she is not
involved in the business. She and her husband have financial support from their families
and although arguably, her own time for leisure, for work, or simply for herself, is not
constrained by money, her opportunities are restricted as a result of her position in the
family as the main care giver.
Emma has not had the same kind of financial backing available as Nasra, and does not have
economic capital to draw on to develop her fashion interests. However, working full time
and receiving family credit does give her the opportunity to buy fabric and build up her
stock and try out new ideas. In contrast to Nasra, she has not had to give up pursuing her
chosen interest due to gendered expectations around care giving and her role as a mother.
Clearly, they have some similar interests that have influenced their experiences of paid
work. However, Nasra has had access to economic capital that evidently, Emma has not
benefited from. They both draw on sources of cultural capital, on a knowledge base that
contributes to their experiences of working in fashion in different ways. Nasra for
example, drew from her own identity and interests, as well as her location within the
South Asian community, to gather ideas and customers.
Similarly, Emma has drawn from her own interests, friends, and a social network based
around a local music and club scene. In addition, she has knowledge of, and access to,
clothing markets in Camden (London), and has been able to develop an informal network of
distribution. She is intending working full time on fashion design when she feels she has
both the economic confidence and self confidence to give up her full time paid job. Since
becoming a lone mother, Emma has always received family credit to supplement her income
when she has been working full time, and has had periods where she was earning
cash-in-hand on a part time basis and claimed income support. She feels that any decisions
have to be made in relation to her responsibility as a parent.
I mean, I want the fashion thing to work out but I kind of think I'd have to go to London initially. But I can't just pack up and go. I'd have to have a job to start off with, and somewhere to live, I've got a responsibility to make sure things are okay for her (daughter).
Shakila also has a keen interest in fashion but her experience of working in the clothes trade is quite different to Emma's and Nasra. She did not study textiles and tailoring at school or college but was taught by her mother at home and what is also a hobby has been her major source of income at different times. She, like Emma, has no financial backing to invest in sewing, though Emma does have the financial security of owning a house. However, she does not feel in a position to borrow money at this stage. Shakila's experience of paid work is similar to Lisa's and Kelly's in that she has had short term jobs with no employees' rights and benefits, and in between working, she has to rely on income support. She reflects on her education and feels limited by what she achieved.
I'm not very educated. I just went to school and that's my limit...I didn't get many exams or anything but I'd started working more or less as soon as I'd finished school. We didn't stay at school because my mum and dad weren't educated either. You know, they didn't see a need for us to go to college and things like that.
Lisa and Kelly left school with very few formal qualifications and have struggled to find paid work that would make stopping benefits feasible. They have both faced difficulties over affordable childcare, and Lisa has had to take her daughter with her to evening cleaning jobs in the past.
Well, if you're expected there but you haven't got a baby-sitter for that evening, well I just had to take her with me. I mean if you ring up and say you can't do it or anything, well, then they just say 'sorry, end of job'. So you haven't exactly got a choice.
When Shakila started her job in Leeds she faced racist attitudes from white working class Leeds women who assumed she did not speak English because she wears hijab (Muslim headscarf).
When I first came here when I was married, I worked down on Mabgate, you know, in tailoring and stuff. When I went in they were all sort of talking, you know like you do at work, and then they like started whispering and talking around me but not to me and they thought I couldn't speak. Well when I spoke up, and I mean I've got quite a broad Yorkshire accent, well they were gob-smacked, and that soon shut them up!
Keira's job as an assistant in a petrol station means that she is constant contact with members of the public. She controls her responses to racist comments through a form of self policing in which she does not 'rise' to every incident.
I mean you can't think about it all the time, and anyway, it doesn't happen all the time. Most of the time it doesn't happen at all, but that's not the same as it not happening. Quite often I will ask people what their problem is, you know, not in a way that gets their back up. Most of the time, a lot of people don't even realise what they're saying....It's worse when it comes from someone you work with, because that's more permanent, you know, you're going to see them everyday.
In some cases, there is clear evidence of a racist discourse that impacts upon women's experiences of the paid labour market. This can also impact upon women's experiences of mothering4, and of leisure. Instances of where 'race' impacts on leisure are considered below. Firstly, however, the following section explores the overlaps of work and leisure for the women in the study.
I've worked places where a lot of blokes come on their own or in groups after work, and I mean you get hassle off them and stuff.
It has been noted elsewhere that city centre space is constructed via
different meanings of work and leisure, and that men's leisure continues to constitute
women's work (Scraton and Watson, 1998). This negative experience of paid work has a
direct consequence for the mothers' leisure: Lisa is wary of using certain city centre
leisure spaces during her leisure time. There are times therefore, when the overlaps
between labour and leisure can lead to further constraints on the women's leisure as
opposed to opportunities.
Kelly talks about her job with a security firm that she works for one to two nights a
week, (in addition to any daytime work she has). She is often not interested in going into
town for her own leisure and quite clearly regards the city centre as a place of work.
I don't really go into town, I'm not that interested you know because I've always worked in bars and night-clubs and stuff. I mean I will go to meet my friends for birthdays and dos and things, but I wouldn't go just for something to do, or just to have a drink.
Once at work however, there are some aspects of working on the door at large venues, that are less work centred and give Kelly the opportunity to enjoy herself. She goes on to say,
I mean sometimes it can be fun and you have a really a good laugh. It's always worse at the beginning and end of the night but in between, I mean you can watch the bands and stuff. And it's not just in Leeds, it can be all over, I've seen some great gigs.
Although Kelly and Lisa suggest that working in town puts them off pubs in the city centre, it contributes to their knowledge of the city centre, mainly through familiarity in relation to making choices for consumption. Therefore, the overlaps between work and leisure can in some senses be regarded as empowering. Lisa suggests
You get to know which places are all right, which ones are for students, which clubs are best avoided, that sort of thing. And then when you do go to town yourself for something, I don't know, you just kind of see it as not so scary, you know because it's just...well that there's people working, not just getting out of it.
Evidently, the women 'map out' the city in relation to work and leisure,
and this has been identified as a pattern among different age groups of women living in
Leeds.5 Another important way in which the mothers map out their use of
Leeds is in relation to safety; particularly movement and mobility across the city at
night. Only Nasra and Kelly had access to private transport; for the other mothers there
were restrictions placed on their choices for both work and leisure. Mapping however also
involves an ongoing process of negotiation. For instance, arrangements with friends,
sharing taxis and engaging in at-home informal leisure were some of the strategies
employed by the mothers. This takes place in the context of spatial patriarchy (Valentine,
1989) and it would appear that women continue to affected by the gendering of city space
(Massey, 1994).
Manda works in a recently opened bar which is run by her boyfriend in addition to her job
as a part time family social worker. Her description of working in town reflects a mixture
of being in a place for work as well as for socialising, and thus represents a number of
different levels of work and leisure. Manda sees working in the bar as such a contrast to
her daytime job that to her, it is not the same as "work". A number of her
friends go to the bar for their leisure and so Manda is able to socialise and catch up as
well as work. The bar in some senses offers Manda a focal point through which to be in
town with friends. Working in the bar legitimates her presence in the city in a different
way to simply 'going out' and needing a baby-sitter. Manda has the support of family
members and this contributes to her range of choices around both paid work and leisure.
Prior to working in the bar, Manda's boyfriend ran a clothes shop in the city centre where
she used to work on Saturdays fairly regularly, "You know, there was the extra money
which helped." This comment about earning extra money indicates that Manda does not
work for her boyfriend just as a means of supporting him. She is engaged in the work for
her own economic needs though clearly there are benefits for her boyfriend in terms of
running a business. Manda says
You know like he'll ask me when people can't come in and whatever, and I mean, I usually stay right to the end of a night if I've been working, otherwise we wouldn't be able to go home together. And I mean, things like, new year's eve, you know, if I didn't work at the bar then we wouldn't be able to spend that time together.
Manda has her own professional status as a social worker and therefore, it
would be inaccurate to claim that she is being controlled by a sexual division of labour
in which her boyfriend as owner is dominant. However, her motherwork is gendered; she is
in a care giving role at work, she has her son to support and look after, she is serving
and helping with domestic type work in the bar, and she is providing support for her
boyfriend's business. She has to negotiate her role as a mother, in making decisions about
paid labour and leisure, which clearly provides evidence of her gendered experiences.
Emma uses a lot of what would perhaps otherwise be 'leisure time' to work on her fashion
interests. For example, she works in the evenings and often runs a stall on a Saturday.
However, this work is not seen in the same context as her paid work between nine and five.
She says for example
I mean it is work, I feel that I've got to do it and if I'm doing the stall, then I have to get stuff ready. But it's not the same as my 'job' because I want to do it, I want to do it for the future so that we (her and daughter) can make a go of things.
This example provides further evidence that work can be perceived as pleasurable (in comparison with other commitments). For Keira, there is not quite the same evidence of a blurring of work and leisure. Her job at the petrol station is seen as work and time outside of that, which includes her mothering and domestic responsibilities, is regarded differently.
Like I'm at work all day, she's at school, you know we don't see each other, then it's nice to pick her up and go home and do things together, even if that means doing the washing!
However, there is an overlap between work and leisure here: Keira's domestic work is incorporated into her leisure time and is perceived by Keira to be a part of her leisure. Thus, both she and Emma share an attitude to 'work during leisure' that is constructed through their full time paid work and their roles as mothers. The majority of women in the research who are active in paid labour (including short periods of not working between jobs), appear to have various different perceptions around paid work, motherwork, overlaps of work and leisure, overlaps of the uses of space for leisure6, and different ways of negotiating their own leisure. These overlaps point to the need to retain the concepts of work and leisure as processes within the mothers' everyday lives rather than distinct functions. Clearly, we cannot make assumptions about the values and meanings that young mothers attach to work and leisure without exploring the complexities and overlaps between the two. The following section therefore moves on to consider the leisure consumption patterns of the women. It highlights the continuity of a number of constraining features that impact on the young mothers' leisure.
I've always put him (son) first. You know, I've always worked, or made sure we've got enough. I've always tried to give him what he needs, and what he wants as much as possible.
However, individual mothers have different attitudes towards what they can and cannot afford. Tricia for example, talks about not having available money for shopping for 'extras' such as fashion. She says
I mean, there's always enough food, the house is always warm, there's always just the bare basic things and that's it. And when it comes to stuff like fashion, and even shoes and coats and things, I mean you have to make do. There's necessity items and there's luxury items, and sometimes things from the necessity items end up as luxury items, because you can't afford them...but they shouldn't, I mean, you need them.
At the same time however, it has been important to Tricia to provide
holidays for her eldest daughter (this is made increasingly less likely now that she has
two children).
Limits on disposable income for spending as 'leisure' is a common theme throughout the
study. Where money is less of a constraining feature, for example, for Nasra,
opportunities are limited as a result of traditional gender roles. Nasra's experience
however, is not representative of 'South Asian women' as there is no homogeneous category
within which South Asian mothers exist. For example, Keira (lone mother) is working full
time and can afford to make some consumption choices as part of her leisure. She does not
own a car but does drive and she and her daughter often go away at weekends (in hire cars)
to visit friends and relatives.
It is suggested above that there are sites where paid work can have aspects of leisure
within it for some of the women, and here, it is also possible to point to instances where
leisure is used to generate income. Here we have another example of the overlaps between
work and leisure: one that indicates leisure can be about production as well as
consumption. Shakila for example, enjoys sewing in her leisure time, particularly now that
she is not working full time as a machinist. She also enjoys decorating and making soft
furnishings, flower arranging and cooking. These are all activities that are traditionally
'female', are centred around the home, and are arguably, a result of gendered
socialisation patterns. However, to Shakila they are means through which to use her
creativity, which is important to her, and earn some extra money.
I sew like wedding outfits for friends, and then they want curtains making! And I've just started doing Asian food, you know for people's buffets and stuff. He (husband) didn't like my cooking, in fact, he said I couldn't cook, but he probably never made more than a cup of tea! I'm teaching my son to cook and to sew because they're really useful things, and because he's with me all the time, and he should value the things I do.
Shakila is clearly reifying what, for her, are positive aspects of the
gendered position that she is in, as a South Asian mother living on her own with two young
children. She is also actively involved in production in her leisure time rather than
consumption.
Where there are limits on spending, a number of similar patterns across the mothers
emerge. One obvious strategy is to avoid leisure activities that cost money, be that using
amenities such as leisure centres and cinemas, eating out (apart from at friends), going
into town to shop with children, going into town on their own, and generally not being
active consumers. However, another strategy, employed by Lisa, Kelly, Shakila and others,
is to decorate at home. They talk about being able to make changes in their immediate
environment where they are currently spending a lot of time, either because they are at
home with a small child or are at home whilst their children are at school, and during
periods when they are not engaged in paid work. They are likely to be at home at weekends
as well because this involves less spending. The scale of the decorating depends on
financial limits, but the women who talked about it clearly enjoyed the sense of
achievement, and to some extent, empowerment around creating their own space. Kelly
describes her decorating 'habit'
I just decorate all the time it seems, you know, I've noticed that whenever I feel restless, I start stripping wall paper!...And I've found this really cheap shop so it's not costing me much, I reckon my bedroom cost less than a fiver to paper...and I've bought decorating books, and I spend hours going through them.
Decorating is clearly a form of consumption which can be fairly
effectively controlled by the women. The women (literally) make their own space which is
evidence of their active engagement in production and consumption within their own homes.
Not going out in the evenings is often a restriction that a number of mothers place upon
themselves. Going for a 'night out' is often regarded as an extravagance because it
involves wanting new clothes, finding and possibly paying for a baby-sitter, and having
enough money for taxis and a 'decent' time once out. Evidently, Manda's work at the bar
overcomes these issues in some ways as she is being paid as opposed to spending yet is
able to enjoy the company and the atmosphere. Emma goes out fairly regularly because she
has some disposable income through working full time and claiming family credit. She feels
that she cannot stay in every night to sew because, as she says, "I can't just work
ALL the time, and then I'd be awful towards her (daughter), because I'd just be fed up and
bloody knackered!". Emma meets friends in student pubs and pubs with live music,
whereas Kelly and Lisa, when they do go out, are more likely to go to big pubs (such as
Yate's Wine Lodge), and avoid what they see as student pubs. This gives an indication that
many of the women have a fairly clear idea of what is suited to them, where they feel
comfortable and so on. It provides further evidence of the ways in which women map the
city in terms of their own needs and wants as mothers, as consumers, and in relation to
paid work and leisure.
Tricia is also limited in her choices for leisure due to financial reasons and spends most
of her evenings at home. However, she does visit friends and family locally, and often
takes her children with her. Her choices around where to go for a drink without children
are made on the basis of her identity as black. She goes to a local club that is central
to the West Indian community in Leeds. Rather than saying that she feels excluded from the
city centre on the grounds of her black identity, she chooses to go to places where other
individuals and groups signify similar experiences to her own. Negotiating leisure choice
in this way exhibits elements of both Tricia's individual biography (difference as
experience), and how she locates herself in her black community (difference as social
relation).
What seems apparent through the interview data is that to a large extent, Leeds city
centre, in the evenings, signifies pubs, bars and night-clubs to the interviewees. This
has been considered by other researchers who highlight continuities of urban centres being
dominated by white males (Bramham and Spink, 1997). Women negotiate this space and as
such, are not automatically excluded on the basis of gender. However, for the mothers in
this study, their positioning as gendered, and racialised, as well as determined to a
large extent by economic capital and status, does impact upon their leisure 'choices'.
Shakila is a practising Muslim and does not go to pubs or bars. Nasra, also a Muslim, will
go to meet friends in bars and restaurants, as will Keira (Hindu), but neither of them
drink or feel particularly comfortable in pubs. There is a context in which individual
women make choices not to be involved in certain leisure forms, and to some extent this is
in relation to religion. However, it is inaccurate to suggest that it is women's own
ethnicity and/or cultural background that limits their choices for leisure. This would
merely reinforce harmful stereotypes of South Asian women as passive and constrained by
ethnicity.
Manda talks about the ways in which she thinks Leeds city centre has changed and has become more multiracial.
I mean, I think it's changed, you know, even since I was young (25 at interview). There are lots of pubs that were white pubs and there's no way we'd have gone in there. But now, I mean young people are changing, and there are so many different cultures, and like music and dress has made a real difference, it has brought people together in a lot of ways.
A number of the women are involved in active leisure and attend aerobics
classes and go to the gym, whilst some of the mothers are not involved in physical
activity. For Shakila, Nasra, and Keira, there are severe limits to public and private
provision for them to pursue active lifestyles. Messages around physicality continue to be
dominated by white, thin, leotard-wearing females, and it is this imagery that is used to
promote consumption of 'health' related goods and services, such as gyms and sports
clothing (Hargreaves, 1994). Keira has negotiated and resisted this imagery and has
attended a private gym in the past. However, she prefers the Asian women's aerobics that
she and Shakila have both attended, although this class was struggling to secure a venue.
The concept of 'mapping' has been considered in various contexts throughout the paper, and
here again, is evidence of the ways in which women make choices and negotiate barriers in
relation to their leisure. They consider what facilities are available and have to make
decisions accordingly. Clearly what we must not lose sight of is the fact that there
continue to be sites where the mothers in the study are discriminated against on the basis
of gender, 'race' and class. Another example of this is the way in which women map the
city in relation to safety and perceptions of safety. This is generally in relation to a
fear of male (sexual) assault.7
Conclusions.
Research evidence suggests that paid labour for the women in the study is influenced by
gender, 'race' and class. The data shows that the kinds of work available, and the
experiences women have of that work, result, to a large extent, from a discourse around
mothering roles. However, this discourse does not impact upon women's lives in a uniform
manner, and different individuals are affected in different ways. For example, some women
feel that it is important to work full time in order to provide materially for their
children, as well as providing a positive role model of mother-as-breadwinner, whilst
other women feel that work needs to be part time and to fit in around the demands of
having children. For a number of other respondents, having children has meant that they
are not in a position to engage in paid labour outside the home. The centrality of the
women as primary care givers to their children, reinforces a discourse around mothering
roles and responsibilities and consequently, paid labour for these women must be
understood in the context of their experiences as mothers. In attempting to analyse these
experiences, motherwork acts as a useful concept through which to develop an understanding
of mothers' identities beyond a white, middle class, privatised arena.
Clearly, it is not always possible to separate work and leisure for these women. Rather
than concentrating on the ways in which mothers may or may not manage their own leisure in
relation to domestic work, this paper has focused on the overlaps of paid work and
leisure. The evidence shows that for some women, paid work can contain some aspects of
leisure, and this can be due to the fact that the work is outside of the home and involves
socialising and being around friends (as well as strangers/new faces). However, for some
women, paid labour in a leisure environment remains work centred and reflects continuities
of gendered social relations. Other women in the study have been able to combine leisure
activities with income generation and rather than paid labour as such, have been able to
create work informally. This can alter the extent to which women perceive the activity as
leisure, as this is usually affected by how much women are seeking to 'produce' and under
what financial pressures. Further research into women's, particularly mothers' involvement
in the informal economy may offer valuable insights to how the demands of work and leisure
are negotiated and achieved.
The consumption patterns of the women display both differences and similarities.
Evidently, material constraints are a key feature for the majority of the mothers
presented here. Whereas the women's involvement in paid work needs to be assessed in
relation to their mothering roles, so too does their leisure, and hence the use of the
term motherleisure. The women are agents and make active choices around leisure
consumption, though these must be considered in the ongoing processes of negotiation that
appear common to their everyday lives. These negotiations revolve around lack of
disposable income, gendered expectations around mothering, both externally produced and
internalised by different women, and negotiating racialised social relations.
It is possible to locate both individual accounts of paid labour and leisure as
difference-as-experience, and difference-as-social relation. A number of the lone mothers
share some commonality of experience, for example, in relation to having childcare
problems that can prevent engagement in paid work. This also impacts on their ability to
freely choose out of the home leisure. They are represented within a discourse of 'single
mothers' that constructs them as deviant, and as dependants on state benefits. However, we
must also examine the individual accounts of different women, and how they negotiate their
own engagement in paid work, childcare needs, and perceptions of themselves as working
mothers. There are some similarities across the experiences of South Asian lone mothers
and white mothers, as well as differences.
There must be a recognition that power remains central to how differences are constructed
and reconstructed. For example, the South Asian women's experiences of the paid labour
market show that 'race' continues to impact upon daily life in an explicit way.
Unacknowledged sites of power, for example, whiteness, require further scrutiny. At the
same time, level of income, educational qualification and family background, influence
opportunities for paid work. Arguably, deconstruction offers a means through which to
analyse the complexities of gender, 'race' and class and how they are 'lived out' in
mothers' everyday lives. Poststructuralist analysis enables acknowledgement of difference,
of negotiation, and agency. However, on the basis of the material presented here, there is
every need to consider the ways in which macro, structural processes of gender, 'race' and
class, continue to be evident. There is clearly a need to move beyond a deterministic
account of women's lives, and recognise the rich diversity of these women's lives.
However, the research indicates that there are some persistent limitations to the agency
of the individual subjects discussed here, thus differences must be mapped onto broader
structural and material relations.
Motherwork and motherleisure are complex and overlapping and require analyses of both
public and private arenas. Women use the city in a multitude of overlapping ways; as work,
as leisure, as mother, as white, as South Asian, as Black, as young, as single, as
consumers, etc. At the same time, these identities are located within a multitude of
different contexts; low income, public housing, lack of formal qualifications, poorly paid
part time labour markets, lack of childcare, dominant discourses around mothering,
familial expectations, racialised work and leisure spaces, and so on. These contexts are
actively and routinely challenged and confronted by the women on a daily basis. The
mothers leisure lifestyles are an example of what Skeggs (1999; p.229) refers to as
"multiple positions and multiple interests" within the city: they are not fixed
but shift in relation to gender, race and class. Therefore, in addition to the valuable
material that a localised study brings, and the detail that a deconstructionist approach
enables, it is suggested that further empirical work be carried out to explore different
women's lives across the city.
Notes.
1 Ongoing Ph.D. research at Leeds Metropolitan University
2 This is regarded by the women as imposing limits on their self identity, and evidently had an impact on applying for jobs. One research subject said that she had sometimes consciously declined to fill in ethnic origin on an application form and on reaching an interview stage has been met with Oh, you never said you were Asian
3 Female employment grew by 16,400 (11%) between 1991 and 1996, while male employment grew by 5,900 (4%). Leeds Development Agency, January 1999
4 During her interview, Shakila talks about when she was in the labour ward in hospital and was accused of being a f...ing paki who got all the midwifes attention by another woman on the ward.
5 In a study of older women living in Leeds (Bramham et.al. 1997), the women had various perceptions of which places they would visit (e.g. the markets), and which places it was not advisable to go alone (e.g. bus station).
6 Scraton and Watson (1998) explored how younger women stopped using shortcuts for fear of attack, and how older women stopped going to certain places in the city centre for fear of being mugged. Both of these threats were seen to be posed by men.
7 Scraton and Watson (1998) explore how younger women stopped using shortcuts for fear of attack, and how older women stopped going to certain places in the city centre for fear of being mugged. Both of these threats were seen to be posed by men.
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I am a Senior Lecturer in Leisure and Recreation Studies at Leeds Metropolitan University and am currently in the final stages of my P.h.D. My research interests include different women's leisure experiences within the city of Leeds and I have been involved in projects on older women, young mothers, and South Asian women. I have worked collaboratively with a number of colleagues in the department and we are planning new research that looks at women as cultural producers and consumers within the city. This work will be based within the Centre for Leisure and Sport Research at LMU. I am also interested in feminist research, in particular researching and theorising difference.
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